Lez/Bi girls, what would you do?

hey, lol this is probs annoying to some people because this is my second or third question I've asked today about being bi and bi-curious. If you are in a relationship with a girl, do you guys do anything? or do u just hold hands, go to the movies, and go on small dates? does it count to be biual if you only hold girl's hands and kiss? I've never had a girlfriend - I want one - but if I only did those things with her - and not have - does that still make me a ? just wondering! Thanks! I love all of you who answer just the way you are!